Getting over it….

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I am currently in Norfolk, Va my hometown visiting family…
I grew up here but I truly GREW when I moved out and away on my own. I’ve gone through some very troubling times on my own and got out of them all on my own. Don’t recall having nightmares because of it all but I can say the memory could be haunting to someone that doesn’t handle the taboos of our country too well…

I feel much stronger b/c of it all yet it’s a strength that is hard to describe b/c a lot of women do NOT get out of those situations safely…if they do at all…
I’ve done some things with my life I’ll never repeat to a soul (no need to) and overall it has helped me mature into the young woman I am today. I sleep pretty damn well at night with zero regrets and I honestly refuse to regret anything! Regrets to me are simply excuses to hold onto the past and a NEGATIVE past at that…

Not cool…

Most people are unable to overcome their struggles without some kind of emotional scarring to last them forever… I am able to get over it…

I’m able to get over a lot, people, material things, emotions, feelings, ideas, restrictions, negative opinions…I just get over it…

Throughout all the controversy that will forever float through my mind, it’s only controversial to society, to me it was a way of life, a different route not accepted with most people and that is fine. JUST like retrieving horse semen, I’m sure most people thinks that’s gross, me included, I’m just saying, what isn’t accepted by most doesn’t mean it’s wrong, doesn’t mean its right either, I guess it’s up to the individual’s judgement, just try to keep an open mind about things…it’s MUCH MORE liberating…

I don’t hold on to my drama, I have too many goals to allow ridiculous distractions to hold me back… besides,I am too pleased with myself on the inside to not let it shine on the outside